Katie Nicholl (Harry: Life, Loss, and Love)

Take it from a guy: If you’re in love with somebody, you will swim the stream, you will climb the mountain, you will slay the dragon. You’re going to get to her somehow, some way.

She was not for everyone, but she was for me.

Breakups are a horrible thing for almost everybody I know. For someone who is a love addict, it’s debilitating.

You can repeat the mistakes of your parents’ marriage or you can go out of your way not to repeat them.

If I go into a club now, all the blonde girls leave my corner and all the black girls come into my corner. It’s as if I’m racist towards white girls!

A cardinal principle of Total Quality escapes too many managers: you cannot continuously improve interdependent systems and processes until you progressively perfect interdependent, interpersonal relationships.

Is it really possible to tell someone else what one feels?

Breaking up is a natural evolution when you try to figure out what you want in life. If you’re with an individual who isn’t moving in the same direction and at the same rate that you are, it ain’t going to work.

Don’t base a relationship on sex. You need love, compassion and caring. Then sex can be a reflection of that.

You know the funny thing, I don’t get along with rich people. I get along with the middle class and the poor people better than I get along with the rich people.

[On hooking up romantically with co-stars] It’s understandable. You’re in situations with an actress where you’re supposed to be intimate, physical, and vulnerable with each other, and sometimes feelings get crossed. It’s like you’re away at summer camp and it seems to make sense, but when you go back home, the reality is that it may not be a situation you want to be in.

This would be a much better world if more married couples were as deeply in love as they are in debt

I was lucky I always got along with girls. It was never like a big deal. I had a lot of girls that I was friends with that I wasn’t sexual with. I think having two older sisters made me comfortable like that. I just like people, so I can just go up and say whatever.

I probably didn’t handle things as diplomatically as I should.

If I don’t have friends, then I ain’t got nothing.